EmpressViolet wrote:Hello again Jamie Michelle.
As I was reading your comment, my mind flashed back to many circles of women I have been a part of. You are so right about that
being a part of being one of the girls. When we gather together, we find ourselves talking about the topics nearest to our hearts...
our men being topic #1. *smile* I am delighted to hear you have a circle of women to enjoy this time with.
Yes, I've been fortunate in having women to talk to.
Of course, they tend to egg me on, in the sense of bringing out my relationships and experiences with men. So it's hard to keep secrets from them.
I resist, but they bring it all out of me. I love men, and they prod me to admit that.
So I love men! Where is the problem? I love men, and that is that!
Jamie Michelle wrote:Well, Susan, I love talking about boyfriends with my genetic girlfriends. It's one of the great perks of being a feminine person. I love talking about guys with genetic women. It feels so femmy to engage in such "girl talk" with them. It makes me really feel like "one of the girls" when we talk about our guys. I love it.
I know! I know it all too well! It makes me feel so girlie when I talk to my genetic female friends about my boyfriends. It draines all the maleness out of me and makes me feel so femmy.
I love it when we get on the topic of the problems we're having with our men. It makes me feel really femme when I dish out some little tidbit about my man that I'm unhappy about.
Don't get me wrong, as I love my man (as I now have a steady man!, as I haven't been talking about him, as I wanted to wait and see how things would develop between us). It's just that men can be so sloppy.
So I love talking about men with genetic women, as it makes me feel like I'm part of the club. The feeling that imparts to me I can't really describe, except to say that it's really feminine. It's like I'm taking part of some ancient feminine ritual.
And I love it when genetic women include me in their talk, just as if I were one of them. I love it that they don't consider me to be a threat or a problem, but instead just "one of the girls".
I love it that I've let go of so many male instincts and made myself so feminine that genetic girls have no problem with me. That I'm so feminine that I'm no threat to a girl. And that they treat me that way even though they realize that I'm actually a genetic male.
To be a genetic male, and to be realized as a genetic male by women, yet be treated by them as just another girl is the ultimate in feminization. It's such a destruction of one's maleness. I love the destruction of my maleness. I love embracing femininity to its fulness.
But it's those little talks that I have with women that really bring it home to me. It's how they treat me, and how they talk to me. They treat and talk to me like one of their feminine clique, and to me that makes it all worth it.[/quote][/quote]