Hi, Empress EmmaJane. I thank you for your wonderful reply to me.Empress EmmaJane wrote:Dear Jamie Michelle,
Those sissy types I mentioned were certainly not meant to be all-inclusive, and you definitely do not sound at all like a slut to me. In fact, I think you sound to be quite the contrary. You sound like a girl who wants what so many do: to be treated like a lady by a man, appreciated, cherished, made to feel special. And you are right! That IS a simple desire and certainly NOT too much for which to ask.
While those men who DESERVE YOU and will love you in the way you wish to be are indeed rare, please keep in mind that there ARE a few good men out there who will shower upon you the caring, adoration, and love that you merit.
As far as those men who do what I call the "drive-by fuck" are concerned, do not let their behavior reflect upon who you are in any way. You are too good for such men - and that is that. Regardless of how they behave, that makes you no less the beautiful, classy, desirable, worthy, and wonderful girl that you are! Keep in mind also that men treat biological women in exactly the same way, so never feel that it's just you; it's them!
I know it is difficult and you may feel that you are dreaming the impossible dream, but do not give up on your search. While there are many Neanderthals out there who are clueless as to how to treat a girl accordingly, there ARE some good ones out there who do.
You deserve the best. Don't settle. Always remember that you are an amazing individual, who deserves to be loved, respected, and made to feel like a beautiful Princess - because YOU ARE!
I had actually read your above reply to me not long after you had made it, but I held off from responding to it because the emotions which I expressed and your answer to them were still too fresh for me. I needed some time to mull them over.
I actually consider myself to be a very fortunate sissy-girl, as I do have a wonderful man in my life who is open about his love for me. As I've said elsewhere on this forum, we live as basically man and sissy-wife.
But you did accurately detect some turmoil in my post to you, and I found your response to me very touching.
I'm very happy to report that things are very well, all things considered.
And I do very much want to reinforce your encouraging comments to me regarding how it is quite possible for an uncloseted sissy to find a nice man to love her openly. As I've said to other sissies here, I know that's possible because that's how I live with my man.
Thank you, Empress EmmaJane, for your kind reply.