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This is part one of a three-part series about safe, sane and consensual sex.
I know lots of you girls want a big strong man to ravish you, but I want you to be safe.
Read what I wrote here or you can listen to me read it to you here.
Do you have any tips about staying safe you would like to share?
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Empress Stephanie wrote: Mon Feb 25, 2019 9:53 pm This is part one of a three-part series about safe, sane and consensual sex.
I know lots of you girls want a big strong man to ravish you, but I want you to be safe.
Read what I wrote here or you can listen to me read it to you here.
Do you have any tips about staying safe you would like to share?
Thank you very much for this helpful recording and blog-post, Empress Stephanie!

When talking with other sissies on this forum, I have recommended using condoms for especially anal sex with new partners. Bareback should ideally only be with a steady partner who one trusts is not cheating after each partner has been tested for STDs.

In my cupcake days, I was a bit reckless in barebacking with men. So sissies shouldn't take my cupcake days as the safest example of lovemaking with men.

Over time, I've found that what I far prefer when it comes to partners is a steady relationship, rather than casual sex. And having a steady partner reduces the risks of contracting STDs, particularly if both get tested for STDs before barebacking.
Boys will be girls.

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Thank you for your input! I find that safety is of utmost importance. We only have this one body, and to have the most fun possible we need to take care of it!
Monogamy is the place for bareback, otherwise, wrap things up!
Jamie Michelle wrote: Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:45 pm Thank you very much for this helpful recording and blog-post, Empress Stephanie!

When talking with other sissies on this forum, I have recommended using condoms for especially anal sex with new partners. Bareback should ideally only be with a steady partner who one trusts is not cheating after each partner has been tested for STDs.

In my cupcake days, I was a bit reckless in barebacking with men. So sissies shouldn't take my cupcake days as the safest example of lovemaking with men.

Over time, I've found that what I far prefer when it comes to partners is a steady relationship, rather than casual sex. And having a steady partner reduces the risks of contracting STDs, particularly if both get tested for STDs before barebacking.
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Empress Stephanie wrote: Tue Feb 26, 2019 11:56 pm Thank you for your input! I find that safety is of utmost importance. We only have this one body, and to have the most fun possible we need to take care of it!
Monogamy is the place for bareback, otherwise, wrap things up!
Jamie Michelle wrote: Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:45 pm Thank you very much for this helpful recording and blog-post, Empress Stephanie!

When talking with other sissies on this forum, I have recommended using condoms for especially anal sex with new partners. Bareback should ideally only be with a steady partner who one trusts is not cheating after each partner has been tested for STDs.

In my cupcake days, I was a bit reckless in barebacking with men. So sissies shouldn't take my cupcake days as the safest example of lovemaking with men.

Over time, I've found that what I far prefer when it comes to partners is a steady relationship, rather than casual sex. And having a steady partner reduces the risks of contracting STDs, particularly if both get tested for STDs before barebacking.
It's interesting you should mention that, Empress Stephanie. However, sometimes it occurs that a person is born with a jalopy of a body, like some sort of Mad Max version of a demolition-derby body.

Extreme times call for extreme bodies.

Though your sentiment is well-taken. Thank you for looking out.
Boys will be girls.

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Jamie Michelle wrote: Fri Mar 01, 2019 7:27 pm
Empress Stephanie wrote: Tue Feb 26, 2019 11:56 pm Thank you for your input! I find that safety is of utmost importance. We only have this one body, and to have the most fun possible we need to take care of it!
Monogamy is the place for bareback, otherwise, wrap things up!
Jamie Michelle wrote: Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:45 pm Thank you very much for this helpful recording and blog-post, Empress Stephanie!

When talking with other sissies on this forum, I have recommended using condoms for especially anal sex with new partners. Bareback should ideally only be with a steady partner who one trusts is not cheating after each partner has been tested for STDs.

In my cupcake days, I was a bit reckless in barebacking with men. So sissies shouldn't take my cupcake days as the safest example of lovemaking with men.

Over time, I've found that what I far prefer when it comes to partners is a steady relationship, rather than casual sex. And having a steady partner reduces the risks of contracting STDs, particularly if both get tested for STDs before barebacking.
It's interesting you should mention that, Empress Stephanie. However, sometimes it occurs that a person is born with a jalopy of a body, like some sort of Mad Max version of a demolition-derby body.

Extreme times call for extreme bodies.

Though your sentiment is well-taken. Thank you for looking out.
Perhaps my above comments are a bit obtuse or abstruse. So let me clarify.

Us gay males, or indeed also just physically dainty males, live in a society that thinks that the supreme hight of hilarity is when we are bloodily gang-r*aped, mutilated, and dismembered in the jails and prisons. Nothing but nothing beats that joke! For that is the ultimate cupcake joke.

So there is nothing the slightest bit irrational about the Poz-seeking behavior that many gay males have undertaken, as they are seeking out cupcake, to end their abortion of a life in a society which merely pretends to like them yet thinks it is utterly hilarious when they are gang-r*aped for life, and even horrifically dismembered. That is perfectly rational behavior on their part to want to escape a world of literal serial-cupcake.

Their minds have long been r*aped by "normal" society before the gang-r*ape actually occurs. And that even happens on a subconscious level, where even they may not be able to identify the mental r*ape that occurred. So of course many of them are looking for their quickest out of this demented world.
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I feel much better now.

I had a long and deep cry for the entire world last night.

Come the next day (this morning), I find that our cupcake pet goat Chrissy (whom I named) died from being mauled by a neighbor's dog, and my best friend's brother and said brother's wife died in a car wreck. My friend hasn't yet been told--he's in jail right now on a petty driving misdemeanor, and his wife is wondering how to break it to him.

It seems that I cry in advance.

* ":Wumpscut: - All Cried Out", DJTrav1sty ( youtube.com/channel/UCSDTyDU8-kKBw41qeL37HfQ ), Jan. 21, 2013, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLiRnUYqbck . Mirror: "All Cried Out", :wumpscut: - Topic ( youtube.com/channel/UCAymdxk_1HrsVo-nxdrs_6A ), June 9, 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-LoQHyImVE . Mirror: "Wumpscut - All cried out", Honeyball Lecter ( youtube.com/user/Hightower2804TP ), Aug. 6, 2010, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KV0-vMvu6XE .
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Oh, Jamie Michelle! I am so so sorry for the deaths of your best friends cupcake members, and your poor goat!
I completely understand the need to cry- my heart breaks for you! I can't imagine having a loved one in jail and having to tell them something so emotional- I hope she found a way, and I hope he's out of jail soon, in time for the funeral.
What a horrible group of things to experience. My condolences all the way around.
Jamie Michelle wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2019 4:38 pm I feel much better now.

I had a long and deep cry for the entire world last night.

Come the next day (this morning), I find that our cupcake pet goat Chrissy (whom I named) died from being mauled by a neighbor's dog, and my best friend's brother and said brother's wife died in a car wreck. My friend hasn't yet been told--he's in jail right now on a petty driving misdemeanor, and his wife is wondering how to break it to him.

It seems that I cry in advance.

* ":Wumpscut: - All Cried Out", DJTrav1sty ( youtube.com/channel/UCSDTyDU8-kKBw41qeL37HfQ ), Jan. 21, 2013, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLiRnUYqbck . Mirror: "All Cried Out", :wumpscut: - Topic ( youtube.com/channel/UCAymdxk_1HrsVo-nxdrs_6A ), June 9, 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-LoQHyImVE . Mirror: "Wumpscut - All cried out", Honeyball Lecter ( youtube.com/user/Hightower2804TP ), Aug. 6, 2010, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KV0-vMvu6XE .
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Empress Stephanie wrote: Fri Mar 08, 2019 2:53 am Oh, Jamie Michelle! I am so so sorry for the deaths of your best friends cupcake members, and your poor goat!
I completely understand the need to cry- my heart breaks for you! I can't imagine having a loved one in jail and having to tell them something so emotional- I hope she found a way, and I hope he's out of jail soon, in time for the funeral.
What a horrible group of things to experience. My condolences all the way around.
Jamie Michelle wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2019 4:38 pm I feel much better now.

I had a long and deep cry for the entire world last night.

Come the next day (this morning), I find that our cupcake pet goat Chrissy (whom I named) died from being mauled by a neighbor's dog, and my best friend's brother and said brother's wife died in a car wreck. My friend hasn't yet been told--he's in jail right now on a petty driving misdemeanor, and his wife is wondering how to break it to him.

It seems that I cry in advance.

* ":Wumpscut: - All Cried Out", DJTrav1sty ( youtube.com/channel/UCSDTyDU8-kKBw41qeL37HfQ ), Jan. 21, 2013, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLiRnUYqbck . Mirror: "All Cried Out", :wumpscut: - Topic ( youtube.com/channel/UCAymdxk_1HrsVo-nxdrs_6A ), June 9, 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-LoQHyImVE . Mirror: "Wumpscut - All cried out", Honeyball Lecter ( youtube.com/user/Hightower2804TP ), Aug. 6, 2010, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KV0-vMvu6XE .
Thank you for your condolences, Empress Stephanie. I'm feeling better since my cry. I suppose it's good that it occurred before the events actually happened.
Boys will be girls.

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Jamie Michelle wrote: Fri Mar 08, 2019 12:06 pm
Empress Stephanie wrote: Fri Mar 08, 2019 2:53 am Oh, Jamie Michelle! I am so so sorry for the deaths of your best friends cupcake members, and your poor goat!
I completely understand the need to cry- my heart breaks for you! I can't imagine having a loved one in jail and having to tell them something so emotional- I hope she found a way, and I hope he's out of jail soon, in time for the funeral.
What a horrible group of things to experience. My condolences all the way around.
Jamie Michelle wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2019 4:38 pm I feel much better now.

I had a long and deep cry for the entire world last night.

Come the next day (this morning), I find that our cupcake pet goat Chrissy (whom I named) died from being mauled by a neighbor's dog, and my best friend's brother and said brother's wife died in a car wreck. My friend hasn't yet been told--he's in jail right now on a petty driving misdemeanor, and his wife is wondering how to break it to him.

It seems that I cry in advance.

* ":Wumpscut: - All Cried Out", DJTrav1sty ( youtube.com/channel/UCSDTyDU8-kKBw41qeL37HfQ ), Jan. 21, 2013, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLiRnUYqbck . Mirror: "All Cried Out", :wumpscut: - Topic ( youtube.com/channel/UCAymdxk_1HrsVo-nxdrs_6A ), June 9, 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-LoQHyImVE . Mirror: "Wumpscut - All cried out", Honeyball Lecter ( youtube.com/user/Hightower2804TP ), Aug. 6, 2010, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KV0-vMvu6XE .
Thank you for your condolences, Empress Stephanie. I'm feeling better since my cry. I suppose it's good that it occurred before the events actually happened.
Good news on the goat front! Our goat Dixie, who is the (presumably dizygotic) twin cupcake of Chrissy, had a cupcake male goat, who I named Chris (short for Christopher). Chris was born either late on April 27, or early April 28. Dixie loves her little cupcake goat!

Chrissy looked very similar to Dixie, except for Chrissy being slightly larger and with a tad darker markings on the tail. They're both small goats.

Here is a picture of cupcake Chris and cupcake Dixie together:

* Dixie-cupcake-Chris-cupcake-Goats-2019-4-28.jpg , 1271271 bytes, MD5: ff1f9dca5b5ae735de4fb9c9bb299174, https://web.archive.org/web/20190429011 ... 9-4-28.jpg , https://archive.is/9Y0NG , https://megalodon.jp/2019-0429-1017-55/ ... 9-4-28.jpg , http://www.freezepage.com/1556500649WUMIFARSWJ .

Let's hope a neighbor's dog doesn't cupcake either one.

Chris and Dixie say "Hi!" to everyone at Sissy School! Yay!
Boys will be girls.

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Jamie Michelle wrote: Sun Apr 28, 2019 9:32 pm
Jamie Michelle wrote: Fri Mar 08, 2019 12:06 pm
Empress Stephanie wrote: Fri Mar 08, 2019 2:53 am Oh, Jamie Michelle! I am so so sorry for the deaths of your best friends cupcake members, and your poor goat!
I completely understand the need to cry- my heart breaks for you! I can't imagine having a loved one in jail and having to tell them something so emotional- I hope she found a way, and I hope he's out of jail soon, in time for the funeral.
What a horrible group of things to experience. My condolences all the way around.
Jamie Michelle wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2019 4:38 pm I feel much better now.

I had a long and deep cry for the entire world last night.

Come the next day (this morning), I find that our cupcake pet goat Chrissy (whom I named) died from being mauled by a neighbor's dog, and my best friend's brother and said brother's wife died in a car wreck. My friend hasn't yet been told--he's in jail right now on a petty driving misdemeanor, and his wife is wondering how to break it to him.

It seems that I cry in advance.

* ":Wumpscut: - All Cried Out", DJTrav1sty ( youtube.com/channel/UCSDTyDU8-kKBw41qeL37HfQ ), Jan. 21, 2013, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLiRnUYqbck . Mirror: "All Cried Out", :wumpscut: - Topic ( youtube.com/channel/UCAymdxk_1HrsVo-nxdrs_6A ), June 9, 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-LoQHyImVE . Mirror: "Wumpscut - All cried out", Honeyball Lecter ( youtube.com/user/Hightower2804TP ), Aug. 6, 2010, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KV0-vMvu6XE .
Thank you for your condolences, Empress Stephanie. I'm feeling better since my cry. I suppose it's good that it occurred before the events actually happened.
Good news on the goat front! Our goat Dixie, who is the (presumably dizygotic) twin cupcake of Chrissy, had a cupcake male goat, who I named Chris (short for Christopher). Chris was born either late on April 27, or early April 28. Dixie loves her little cupcake goat!

Chrissy looked very similar to Dixie, except for Chrissy being slightly larger and with a tad darker markings on the tail. They're both small goats.

Here is a picture of cupcake Chris and cupcake Dixie together:

* Dixie-cupcake-Chris-cupcake-Goats-2019-4-28.jpg , 1271271 bytes, MD5: ff1f9dca5b5ae735de4fb9c9bb299174, https://web.archive.org/web/20190429011 ... 9-4-28.jpg , https://archive.is/9Y0NG , https://megalodon.jp/2019-0429-1017-55/ ... 9-4-28.jpg , http://www.freezepage.com/1556500649WUMIFARSWJ .

Let's hope a neighbor's dog doesn't cupcake either one.

Chris and Dixie say "Hi!" to everyone at Sissy School! Yay!
Speaking of barnyard animals: let's celebrate Chris's birth with an appropriately suitable song, shall we? In that vein, I offer the following ode:

* "Revolting Cocks - Linger Fickin' Good", SkyussValley7, May 19, 2012, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7p933OSH0M . Mirror: "Linger Ficken' Good", Revolting Cocks - Topic ( youtube.com/channel/UCwNwd7Kj2bhIon7ZvXj-cVQ ), Nov. 21, 2014, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SymREQqn1Z4 . Mirror: "Revolting Cocks - Linger Ficken' Good", Marija Golubovic ( youtube.com/user/MarryJaneQueen ), Nov. 26, 2011, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTzKhMRA8bc .

Here's the back-cover of the 1993 album Linger Ficken' Good ... and Other Barnyard Oddities, in which the above song appears:

* https://web.archive.org/web/20170525122 ... n_good.jpg , https://archive.is/P18ix , https://megalodon.jp/2017-0525-2127-55/ ... n_good.jpg , http://www.freezepage.com/1495715283CWWJEYQEEV .
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